Easy Conversation Starters for Dil Milay’s Online Daters
Ready to start that first conversation after the fun of finding people that interest you on the Dil Milay online dating app’s profiles? Time to reach out socially and start a conversation that bridges your first impression on the profile to keep the connection going to someone special. Let’s face it, we all love to text and to rely on the fast paced fun in daily life of emoji and images, but establishing a nice connection in online dating requires you to up your communication game.
Here’s the first in a series of Dil Milay posts with ideas on how to break the ice and get online daters started chatting:
Starter tip #1 Peak into their profile
Strike up a fun conversations with some wit and you’ll surely engage more interest and attention to your profile. That means it’s a good idea to look carefully at the profile of the person you are about to start an online conversation.
Your first online conversations will likely be in text and the key is to open with a catchy question.
Pay attention to what your potential new friend said about themselves, what they like. Say enough to show that you have read their profile and are taking an interest. You’ll raise enough curiosity that they will be encouraged to respond.
There’s magic in the openers and that might mean some cool questions which brings up to our next tip.
Starter tip #2 Ask an interesting question
Set yourself apart from other daters on the Dil Milay online dating app with ice breaker questions.
Asking questions on a dating site helps you keep the conversation going so you have a chance of getting to know each other better. It’s polite and it shows them you’re interested.
Not sure which questions to ask? Simply start with the ordinary and easy one.
“Where’s home for you?”
“How was your weekend?” or “How's your week going?"
You might dare to open with a short sassy snappers – be imaginative to find what’s relevant and what is your own:
“Vanilla or strawberry ice cream?”
“Beach or mountain holidays”
“Star Wars or Star Trek”
Asking questions that require more than a yes or no answer, called open ended questions, make it easy to connect with you and encourages a proper answer. All they have to do is respond.
Starter tip #3 Keep it short and sweet
Make your Dil Milay message opener short. Your energy should be in the longer game so your opening conversations create an invitation to respond. Shorter, lighter messages mean you don’t invest too much time, and the recipients of your attention may be more motivated to reciprocate with a playful message.
You might not get a response. They may have lots of messages or simply not be on when you are on, to start with. If you can make it playful and slightly personal based on the interests they shared in their profile it will pique their interest and lend energy to finding time to answer you.
Pro tip from successful online conversationalists: Just saying hi, or howdy is not an ice breaker. It’s not enough. Mostly women report instantly losing interest when no hint of personality or any detail on how to respond.
Your first messages should definitely show that you read the person's profile and that you are interested in discovering more about them. Keep the conversation light. Make it brief and they’ll either respond or you’ll move on to enjoy someone who will make the effort to communicate.
Good luck and good chats.
Dil Milay the South Asian Singles Online Dating App
Meet New People Today!
